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As soldiers heal, families couldn't be
closer
12:03 AM CST on Tuesday, November 21, 2006
By DAVID McLEMORE / The Dallas Morning News
SAN ANTONIO – Good news comes only in small bits. A
moment of progress in physical therapy. A day when an
amputated limb seems less awkward, a burned face less
pHis wife, Jamie, also 22, sits close by. She keeps her eyes
on him as he flexes his hands, both encased in black
compression gloves that help heal his burned flesh. He's one
of more than 2,500 GIs wounded in Iraq and Afghanistan who
have been treated at Brooke Army since Sept. 11, 2001.
ERICH SCHLEGEL / DMN
Thanks to a group that provides
military families a place to stay
near loved ones undergoing
medical care, Brian and Jamie
Fleming are together as he
recovers from burns received in a
suicide attack in Afghanistan. The
Flemings had been married just three months when Sgt.
Fleming deployed to Afghanistan in March with the 10th
Mountain Division. During a routine patrol along Highway 1
near Kandahar on July 24, a suicide bomber attacked Sgt.
Fleming's Humvee.
It was the second time he'd been blown up. He walked away
from the first, which occurred shortly after he arrived when
his vehicle ran over an improvised explosive device. He
wasn't so lucky this time.
The suicide bomber's van carried two artillery shells – one a
white phosphorous incendiary device – that the driver ignited
in front of Sgt. Fleming's vehicle. The blast knocked the
Humvee 100 meters off the road, throwing him and two
others GIs out. As he came to, he saw the skin was burned
off the back of his hands, and flash burns from the
phosphorous left his chest and neck with second- and third-
degree burns.
"I really don't remember anything about the explosion except
coming to, seeing my hands and walking toward the
medevac," he said. As he walked, he passed the bomber's
charred leg.
Three days later, he was flown to the BAMC burn center,
where doctors began rebuilding his hands with skin grafts. He
attends physical therapy three times a week to rebuild the
functionality of his hands.
"The Army called saying he'd been burned, and I just freaked
out," Mrs. Fleming said. "Brian called from Germany to say
he was being sent to Texas, so I packed up and started
driving."
High demand
She wound up at Fort Sam Houston at Fisher House, one of
35 nationwide "comfort homes" created by the private-sector
Fisher Foundation to provide military families a place to stay
to be close to loved ones undergoing medical care.
The steady flow of wounded from Iraq and Afghanistan has
increased demand. Two Fisher Houses with family-style
quarters provide a room and place of refuge, free of charge,
for 20 people. Both are at capacity – with a waiting list of 40
for each.
Last year, the Army opened its second amputee care clinic at
Brooke Army. A 65,000-square-foot Center for the Intrepid
rehabilitation center will open in January. A month later, two
larger Fisher Houses that will provide room for 44 more
residents will open.
For Sgt. Fleming and his wife, the reunion at BAMC, where
she set up residence in the Fisher House, made things better.
But the anxiety hasn't diminished.
"Really, I'd have to say it's been pretty hard the whole time,"
she said. "It's not just his wounds. It's everything else."
Army doctors predict his recovery will take one to two years.
He's also experiencing episodes of memory loss and
occasional confusion – indications of post-traumatic stress
syndrome.
"We know we're a long way from being totally OK. But he's
here and we have the future to work on it," Mrs. Fleming said.
"We haven't had a lot of time together. This will be our first
Thanksgiving as a married couple. Right now, I don't want to
be away from him at all."
First time away
For Air Force Master Sgt. Shawn Roberts, 40, and his wife,
Jacki, it will be the first time they've been away from family
for the holidays after 15 years of marriage.
In August, their life with two daughters and a grandchild was
turned upside down when Mrs. Roberts learned she had
cervical cancer. Physicians at Peterson Air Force Base in
Colorado Springs, Colo., where he's assigned, recommended
that she be sent to Brooke Army for treatment.
"Jacki's on an emotional roller-coaster right now. She has her
good days and her bad," Sgt. Roberts said. "So we just take
it day by day. Usually, we have the big family Thanksgiving
dinner. I do all the cooking. This year, it's just us. Whatever
we have, we'll share it."
Like many of the military families at BAMC, they have little
time to plan for the holidays. Their time and attention is
focused on therapy schedules and the ups and downs of the
healing process.
But the Flemings and Robertses agree that the experiences
that brought them here help put everything in perspective.
"Everyone here has a story and everyone comes in thinking
they have the worst war story," Sgt. Fleming said. "But there's
always someone worse off. And you start seeing that you're
not alone. You start seeing that you can't grow a new hand or
leg, but you can get better."
Sgt. Fleming joined the Army out of high school in Jackson,
Mich.
"I really felt I had an obligation to stand with all those soldiers
who came before. I don't have any regrets about what I did,"
he said. "But I got a good dose of reality in Afghanistan. It
was like a gift. It showed me early on what's important in life."
Holidays at a military hospital can be lonely affairs.
Those able to travel take leave to be with family. Those who
can't must find celebration where they can. Brooke Army's
commander throws a big dinner at the hospital, where staff
and patients come together.
All the trimmings
At Fisher House, residents are welcome to prepare a feast of
their own, said Inga Godfrey, manager of the two Fisher
Houses at Fort Sam Houston.
"We want people to think of this as their family home," she
said. "I leave it up to them how they want to celebrate, but we
often have a Thanksgiving dinner here, as well as birthdays,
weddings and other celebrations."
Mrs. Godfrey has been with the Fisher Houses since the first
one at Fort Sam Houston opened in 1992. She has watched
as a seemingly unending line of wounded soldiers and their
families have come to stay and begin healing.
"I see these young people come through in their pain and
they become family," Mrs. Godfrey said. "We laugh with them
and we cry with them. I've had my own sorrows in life, but
seeing how they deal with their problems, they make me
stronger."
For Sgt. Roberts, the trip to Texas has been an eye-opener.
"Sometimes, you just need that tap on the shoulder to make
you know what's important," he said. "When we see these
kids back from Iraq, the amputees and burn cases, you know
you're not alone. And we know if they can beat what they've
been through, we can beat cancer."
Mrs. Roberts, tired after her cancer treatment, weeps softly
as she talks about missing Thanksgiving.
"It's our first Thanksgiving away from my daughters, and it's
just hard to be apart," she said. "I'd like to have an old-
fashioned Thanksgiving, but right now, as long as I'm with
Shawn, I'm OK."
Sgt. Roberts, however, has a different idea. With Mrs.
Godfrey's help, he's going to give whomever is around the
Fisher House a Thanksgiving dinner they won't forget. There
will be turkey, sweet potato soufflé, greens and rolls, and
enough pies to ruin anyone's diet.
"Thanksgiving isn't about the food, it's being thankful for what
you have. And I'm most thankful to have my wife with me.
And to meet some of these wonderful soldiers and their
families," he said. "I don't want anyone here not to have
something to celebrate."
ainful.
For the military families gathered a long way from home at
the two Fisher Houses near Brooke Army Medical Center, the
simplicity of everyday life takes on special meaning at
Thanksgiving.
During this holiday, as America feasts on turkey and
dressing, then waits impatiently before the big-screen TV for
the game to begin, the folks at Fisher House are thankful just
to be alive and together.
Everything else is secondary.
"I'm just glad to be breathing," said Sgt. Brian Fleming, 22.
"There were many times that wasn't a certainty."
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